Supporting neurodivergent adults to create a life that works with your brain, not against it

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Welcome to Neurodiverging! On this page, you can see all of the ways I can help you create a life that works for you. 

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Find Your Flow Community Group

Join our free, private community for neurodivergent adults, Find Your Flow. We can’t wait to meet you! Join us here.

In this recorded webinar with certified parent coach and autistic parent Danielle Sullivan, you’ll learn more about collaborative parenting, how it supports nervous system and skills development in neurodivergent children, & how to implement it in your family today! Register here.

Conflicting access needs can be challenging, but with open communication, creative problem-solving, and mutual respect, we can create more inclusive spaces.

This 2-page downloadable tip sheet offers practical strategies and reflection questions to help you navigate these situations with confidence. Use this resource to foster better understanding, set clear boundaries, and advocate for accessibility in your community. Grab it here.

For many neurodivergent students, communicating with teachers can feel confusing, intimidating, or exhausting, especially when you’re trying to ask for help, clarify expectations, or talk about accommodations. That’s why we created Talking with Teachers Sentence Stems for Neurodivergent Students: a free, one-page guide with gentle conversation starters to help you feel more confident reaching out. Download it here.

A practical white paper for leaders who want to keep neurodivergent talent. Learn 5 research-grounded steps to stop losing great people, reduce costly turnover, and turn inclusion into operational advantage today. Download now.

If you’d like additional guidance or are curious about partnering with us, please feel free to contact us via email: contact@neurodiverging.com

I serve as a sensitivity reader and authenticity consultant, supporting authors, educators, and creative teams in representing neurodivergent and disabled experiences with accuracy and respect. Learn More.

Think Like A Scientist: Experiment, Learn & Grow ($9)

Learn my 2-minute process to build clarity, confidence, and momentum.

Get unstuck and kick hesitation to the curb. Learn more here.

Reset Your Inner Critic (Live in November)
You know her. Or him. Or whatever your inner critic sounds like in your head.
 
She’s the one keeping score. The one who notices the second you drop the ball, who never quite lets you feel like you did enough, who somehow makes “trying hard” and “being critical of yourself” feel like the same thing
 
Here’s the thing: she’s not there to make you miserable. She’s there to keep you safe.
 
This weekend is about learning to work with that voice instead of being at war with her. Learn more.

Most advice out there tells you to “keep pushing through” or “no pain no gain,” but constantly being over capacity isn’t sustainable, reasonable, or what you deserve from your one and only life! Spend a week with this workbook and take a different approach:  Learn more.

Join Danielle Sullivan for a recorded discussion and Q&A about how ADHD, autism, and other common neurodivergences affect sleep.

We discuss some basic information about why sleep is important, how lack of sleep affects autistic and ADHD folks especially, and common reasons we have more trouble going to bed at night. You’ll walk away with some practical tips and tricks for improving your night right away. Learn more here.

Embracing Your ADHD Brain, Danielle Sullivan’s first book, is a neurodiversity-affirming self-help guide for teens. By helping teens recognize how outdated social stigma can affect their sense of self, this book empowers readers to overcome internalized shame and start working with their strengths and values to build the life they want. Learn more here.

Find Your Calm is an on-demand audio series designed to give you easy-to-use, practical techniques to help you and your family navigate stress, big emotions, and everyday overwhelm. Taught by certified parent coach and neurodiversity expert Danielle Sullivan, these simple but powerful exercises – grounding, visualization, and body scanning – can make a big difference in how you handle tough moments. Learn more.

Are you ready for a deeper look at what actually interferes with initiation, follow-through, and organization for otherwise capable, self-aware neurodivergent adults?

In The Real Root of Executive Dysfunction, you’ll be learning the framework I use to help my clients rebuild consistency and reduce shame at the root. Learn more.

Tired of being stuck, overwhelmed, or unable to start the things that matter?

You’re not lazy. You’re trying to use motivation strategies that don’t work for your brain.

Instead of trying to force yourself into those systems, let’s look at how your motivation actually works and how to build something that fits. Learn more.

Sitting down to work to just… stall out? This one’s for you. Turn your brain toward the outcome you want before you even get started.
 
In this recorded, bite-sized workshop, Danielle Sullivan will share a short, practical structure you can use to settle in before you start any task, whether that’s writing, a work project, or something on your to-do list you keep avoiding. Learn more.

It’s believed that up to HALF of all autistic people struggle with alexithymia. Learn more about this misunderstood set of traits and how to work with them to create strong friendships and relationships that will last. Learn more.

Step into the version of yourself who can actually do hard things.

Creating Your Power Persona is a practical body-based workshop to help you follow-through, speak up, and move through resistance without fighting your brain. Learn more.

 

If you often feel overwhelmed by negative thoughts or beliefs that hold you back, like ‘I’m not good enough’ or ‘I always mess things up’, this workshop will teach you why self-compassion is so hard and teach you how to recognize and challenge those unhelpful thinking patterns, empowering you to thrive as your authentic self. Learn more.

This course takes you through all the information you need to incorporate deep breathing into your daily toolkit, with an eye toward adapting traditional methods for neurodivergent nervous systems. Learn more.
A neurodivergent-affirming Nonviolent Communication workshop plus self-compassion bingo cards that help you understand your needs, express them clearly, and build connection without masking. Learn more.

Visual supports aren’t just for kids. Learn to reduce your burden and improve your executive function by creating visual aids unique to your needs. Learn more.

 
What if you could approach moments of stress and overwhelm with calm, clarity, and compassion for yourself? 
 
Our new course, Create Your Personalized Overwhelm Plan, is designed to help you understand your body’s responses to stress and trauma so you can move out of reactive states and into a place of greater balance and control. Learn more.
 

What if you could finally understand what’s going on inside your own head without overanalyzing or second-guessing yourself, with proven strategies and neuroscience and psychology-backed techniques?

In this course, you’ll create a personalized map of your emotional landscape to help you recognize what’s happening inside and respond with clarity and confidence, in just a couple of weeks. Learn more.

The ‘Get Yourself Together’ bootcamp is a  5-day program carefully designed to help you conquer your executive function humps with clear, neurodivergent-affirming frameworks and action steps based in neuroscience. Learn more.

 

What if you could confidently support every neurodivergent client who walks into your practice with proven training modules, case studies, and practical tools, and use a clear, strengths-based, trauma-informed framework to deliver care that truly makes a difference? The NML Neuro-Affirming Care Certification is an 8-week pre-recorded course for coaches and healthcare providers who want to expand their skills, build stronger client relationships, and earn recognition as a certified neuro-affirming professional. Co-taught by Danielle Sullivan and Dr. Rabia Subhani. Learn more.

You may have learned to rely on pressure (because it works!) But what if it isn’t actually helping you?
 
Constant internal pressure has a cost. When you’ve learned to measure your worth by what you accomplish, your body’s signals can start to feel like inconveniences.
 
Find Your Flow is an opportunity to start questioning those expectations, and actively build a different relationship with yourself. Learn More.

Practice sustainable change with consistent support, flexible rhythms, and people who understand how your brain works. The Aligned Momentum Circle is a long-term coaching and community space for neurodivergent adults who want to build regulation, self-trust, and steady momentum. Learn more and apply here.

Danielle Sullivan collaborates with neurdivergent adults and teens without ID who need personalized support. Together, we can work to:

• assess your strengths and obstacles with precision
• adapt your environment, habits, and expectations for your success
• build systems that support follow-through and reduce overwhelm
• strengthen decision-making and problem-solving skills
• grow confidence in your own judgment

If you want to pursue your goals with clarity instead of self-doubt and build trust in your own capabilities and direction, apply to work with me directly, and let’s talk.

Danielle serves as a sensitivity reader and authenticity consultant, supporting authors, educators, and creative teams in representing neurodivergent and disabled experiences with accuracy and respect. Learn more and get in touch to discuss your project here.

 

As a certified educational trainer, Danielle helps schools and educators reduce challenging student behavior without wasting a ton of time, energy, and brain power on 1:1 intervention. Learn more and get in touch here.

Welcome, I'm glad you made it!

It’s great to meet you. My name is Danielle Sullivan: I’m a gender nonconforming, neurodivergent parent, certified coach, and business owner. 

At Neurodiverging, a focus of our coaching is on re-training our brains to release shame, meet ourselves where we are, and rely on tools that actually work for our nervous systems. 

Our work together helps you build better relationships, trust in yourself, and live a values-first life. 

I want our clients to feel seen, welcomed, cherished, and capable.

If you want to learn patience and flexibility with yourself, we have personalized tools and resources waiting for you. 

If you want to learn about your neurodivergence and need help making sense of the chaos – we’re here. 

If you’ve tried it all before, and are ready to meet yourself where you are and try something new – I’d love to be your partner in that. 

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Embracing Your ADHD Brain: An Actually Helpful Guide for Teens, is now available in your local bookstore.

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