Setting Goals and Perseverance
There are many ways to set goals, but one of the best ways is to start with high-level goals. Then, for each of those high-level goals, define the tasks that it would take to accomplish those goals. Set milestones so that you can measure how you are doing at each step. It’s okay to make adjustments along the way, even to the high-level goals. But, the key is to use this as a roadmap to keep going. That is the best way to get to where you want to go. Perseverance will play a big role here.
If you give up at any point, don’t beat yourself up. Consider what caused you to give up, and see if you can make an adjustment to your plan to account for that issue. Then, either start over or, if possible, pick up where you left off. When you finally accomplish your goals and milestones, it will be that much more worth the effort.
If you find that you are constantly giving up on your goals, you may want to get some professional help. This can either be in the form of coaching or in extreme cases, you may want to seek the advice of a counselor. Sometimes this can make the difference in breaking the barrier of quitting before meeting your goals. A mentor or counselor can give you the necessary guidance and may even be able to help you define better goals. It could be you just weren’t following the right plan.